Growing
up Online addresses important issues concerning the evolution of social
networking and its impact on today’s society, especially on the younger generation.
It is unfortunate to say that many have
become enslaved by social media and cannot live a day without using it; it has
become part of them, an integral component in their daily routines. For some, social networking is an escape from
reality, a momentary relief from the hard struggles and harsh realities of life.
Social network sites can be seen as a haven where one can be him/herself or where
he/she can choose to be who he/she wishes to be without being judged or
ridiculed. It allows people to create and play around with different identities;
it is somewhat of a game where one can take on any role. Further, it allows people to seek and find others
that they can relate to and who can genuinely understand and accept them for
who they are. Social media provides a
place where there is nothing wrong with being different, where in fact being
different is appreciated and accepted.
Although social networking can have
its benefits, it can also be harmful and lead to cyber-bullying and exposure to
online predators. Before the evolution
of social media, victims of bullying could at least come home with the
guarantee of being safe and free from ridicules and harassments. Nowadays,
however, bullying does not end at school, but continues at one’s home. Through
social networking sites, in particular Facebook, some adolescents express
themselves so freely and maliciously with or without consciousness of the harm
their words can cause. What can at first
seem like a fun and harmless game can lead to severe consequences. Those being victimized are afraid to reach out
to their parents or an adult either because they are being threatened or simply
because they are concern about what their classmates may think or say about
them if they were to say anything. So it makes one wonder if such advancements
in technology are as beneficial as one may have first come to believe. There have been and continue to be many cases
of tragic stories of cyber-bullying and suicides. It is important that parents
remain alert of their children’s social life and remain involved in their lives
by holding discussions on school and who they associate themselves with. Parents
need to develop and maintain a close and loving
relationship with their child.
I think you're absolutely right that parents should take a hands-on approach to their children's mental health. I've had a hard time in the past with bullying and ridicule, and my close relationship with my family was invaluable. I think the most important thing is that people need to evolve. Just because there are new dangers out there doesn't meet there won't be ways to prevent these things from happening.
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